Showing posts with label simple. Show all posts
Showing posts with label simple. Show all posts
Burnt Out on Judgment The Not So Simple Motions of Diabetic Living
Sunday, March 16, 2014
But still...! Imagine, for a moment that youre a person living with diabetes, and have lived with it for many, many years... Imagine its been challenging. Youve gone through many phases of burn out, and phases of challenge. Its been a deep struggle, for various reasons:
- Managing this crap every day is a roller coaster, and well, it seldom likes to actually do what we expect it to do. Einstein once said that "doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results" was the definition of insanity. I like to call it... Diabetes.
- You have some white coat person always reminding you if you dont take care of yourself, youre going to die. And NOT in uncertain terms, either.
- Youll get retinopathy...
- Youll get nephropathy...
- Youll get neuropathy...
- All the opathies...
- Youll get your limbs amputated...
- Youll lose bladder function...
- Youll be impotent...
- Youll have congestive heart failure, or a stroke...
- Youll go into DKA, or insulin shock...
- Youll DIE.
- You may not necessarily have many close friendships, in your immediate circle of acquaintances, that can actually understand you.
- You have some family members constantly reminding you of the things the white coat person was reminding you...
- You have friends, coworkers, and other relatives, wanting you to FORGET about what the white coats, and the other family members, keep reminding you, and then just go live life with them... "just live a little." (And its always living thats centered around food, or alcohol.)
- You have your own deep desires to want to just be NORMAL, or as close to normal as you can be... and "just live a little."
- Youve carried the heavy load of discipline, and care, however individualized your load might be, for a long, long time. You are very AWARE of how serious it is if you dont carry the load.
- You get tired... You burn out. You drop the load.
Now... most of us understand this circle. We understand that it gets OLD carrying the load, and we get burnout. We stop... we go through the motions. Often, we even get eating disorders, etc.
So we crusade long and hard for our folks, because, we dont want people to think we gave ourselves complications, when they happen. No one consciously says "Im going to chug donuts! I want retinopathy!" -- Burnout IS a part of chronic illness. It is NOT a character flaw. It is not simply "people not doing their part," or not taking responsibility. It is simply... people being TIRED from taking on so much responsibility.
By contrast, we may have well been doing our part, and were just genetically predisposed to complications... But the world outside of us does not understand "genetically predisposed." The media doesnt tell ANYONE about "genetically predisposed" -- only about you can prevent and avoid complications, if you just take care of yourself. Why? Because the media is not interested in shades of gray -- the media has a job, and that job is to gain viewership, and ratings. The only way you get viewership, readership, and ratings... is by generating controversy... And the only way you get controversy is by getting folks to think in the inflexible lanes of black and white. And when you scare people about the rising cost of diabetes (uncontrolled diabetes, mind you), and then show them articles about "My aunt Bonnie, who didnt take care of her diabetes, and was irresponsible, etc, etc..." people get MAD. Angry. Unsupportive. Unsympathetic.
Does that make sense? Im sure it does.
Now, imagine a non-diabetic person... living their life as usual. They want to be normal, and keep living, just like anyone else... and as usual. They have the same family members, coworkers, and friends pressuring them to "just live a little."
They go to their doctor, and hear:
- "Meh, you could lose a couple of pounds, but youre fine."
- "You maaaaaay, or maaaaaaay not get diabetes down the long road... Its just not easy to say. But dont worry about it. Youll be fine. Just walk it off."
- "Meh, youre blood sugar is a little high, but youre fine! Theres no way you have any issues... Just walk it off..."
- "Nah, I dont think we need to test anything, youre fine... Just walk it off..."
Now... If it is hard for us to get our minds wrapped around the realities and burdens of illness, when we HAVE illness... Imagine how hard it is for an illness-free person to get their minds wrapped around the POTENTIALS of illness, and some "boogieman" of illness, out there, somewhere, over the hill... that may come, or not come... but they cant really say for sure... Its just some hazy smoke and mirrors thing. Imagine being "genetically predisposed", but only if you trip! "Dont you ever TRIP!" (Of course, they dont ever mention the trip can also be almost anything, besides weight and diet...)
Sure, hindsight is 20/20. Id love to go back in a time machine, and slap the crap out of Liz, and tell her "hey, start carrying the load a little sooner!" (Not that itd be of much help, with all my other health conditions, medications, and predispositions... They are, together, a much stronger trigger than lifestyle...) Some might say I was damned if I didnt, and damned if I did... But Im not quite sure what Id be avoiding, frankly...
"Live sternly, as a diabetic, so that you dont become a diabetic."
Seems a bit off putting... It might be hard to convince Liz. Especially if no ones serious about the boogieman... Its never around, and just some foggy illusion thing... And EVERYONE says you can get rid of it, if you do get it... (snark, snark) I mean, yeah, we should ALL do our best to be healthy, and everything... but Liz might want to enjoy a burden free life for a little longer -- at least, as long as she can. I mean, isnt that what we long for when were burnt out? A bit of freedom? Choices? Splurging without going into some diabetic hell episode? Having a little more than a 1/2 cup of moderation?
Yeah, I thought so... What burnt out people want is not that different than what illness free people want. A little freedom, a little empathy, a little break, a little life.
So we should crusade long and hard for folks, because, people should not think we gave ourselves diseases, when they happen. Chronic illness is NOT easy to manage, but neither is it exactly so easy to avoid... No one consciously says "Im going to chug donuts! I want diabetes!," and most people arent binge eating disordered individuals... (And so what if some are... People have demons. People fight them as they can... or struggle, as they tire of their loads... Life is hard.) They are just people living... and illness IS a part of living. Illness doesnt really care if you gave it to yourself, or not. It is NOT a character flaw. It just is... It is simply... people going through the motions of LIVING...

3 Simple Ways to keep teeth healthy
Thursday, February 6, 2014
Many ways in which to maintain a healthy mouth and teeth. If oral health is disturbed then the activity youre screwed, because you will not be confident when communicating with others. Heres an easy way to create dental health reported by All You.
Eating nutritious foods
Phosphate and calcium in cheese can help preserve your enamel. Apple, can also stimulate saliva production. Eating these foods is an easy way to rid your mouth of the particles leftovers when you do not have time to brush your teeth.
Disposable dental floss
In addition to cleaning the rest of the food particles that can not be removed with a toothbrush, dental floss can make breath fresher. Useful flossing avoid bleeding gums and prevent cavities.
Drink with a straw
Soda, sports drinks, juice can erode the protective enamel of your teeth. Limit contact the liquid on your teeth by using a straw. Drink with a straw helps keep drinks was directly into the esophagus without the need to go through gears.
Healthy teeth will make you look fit and confident.
Eating nutritious foods
Phosphate and calcium in cheese can help preserve your enamel. Apple, can also stimulate saliva production. Eating these foods is an easy way to rid your mouth of the particles leftovers when you do not have time to brush your teeth.
Disposable dental floss
In addition to cleaning the rest of the food particles that can not be removed with a toothbrush, dental floss can make breath fresher. Useful flossing avoid bleeding gums and prevent cavities.
Drink with a straw
Soda, sports drinks, juice can erode the protective enamel of your teeth. Limit contact the liquid on your teeth by using a straw. Drink with a straw helps keep drinks was directly into the esophagus without the need to go through gears.
Healthy teeth will make you look fit and confident.
A simple way to prevent heart attacks
Tuesday, February 4, 2014
A simple way to prevent heart attacks - Heart disease is one of the worlds deadliest diseases. Actually, this disease can be prevented from the outset. However, many people shrugged. To keep it healthy and do not have a heart attack, follow the tips below reported Mind Body Green.
Do not smoke
Smoking is a poison that can kill you at any time. May initially very hard to let go of cigarette addiction, but believe me you will be healthier without tobacco.
Move
You want to be healthy but do not exercise at all? The result is a big zero. Instead you will be infected with many diseases if not ever exercise. You do not need to come to the fitness center to get a fitter body. Enough walking for 15 minutes while breathing fresh air. Besides making your mind fresh, this activity makes the heart healthy!
Manage stress
Stress triggers why you could develop heart disease. For that you must be good at managing stress. Never too late to think of problems, do not easily angered and enjoy your life. Live only once so why contrived hard?
Be more social
Having a lot of friends, family and spending time with fun is the most effective prevention of heart attacks. Conversely, if you do not want to hang out, youll be faster stress. It will kill you slowly.
This simple way to make you happier and fitter, thereby reducing the risk of heart disease.
Do not smoke
Smoking is a poison that can kill you at any time. May initially very hard to let go of cigarette addiction, but believe me you will be healthier without tobacco.
Move
You want to be healthy but do not exercise at all? The result is a big zero. Instead you will be infected with many diseases if not ever exercise. You do not need to come to the fitness center to get a fitter body. Enough walking for 15 minutes while breathing fresh air. Besides making your mind fresh, this activity makes the heart healthy!
Manage stress
Stress triggers why you could develop heart disease. For that you must be good at managing stress. Never too late to think of problems, do not easily angered and enjoy your life. Live only once so why contrived hard?
Be more social
Having a lot of friends, family and spending time with fun is the most effective prevention of heart attacks. Conversely, if you do not want to hang out, youll be faster stress. It will kill you slowly.
This simple way to make you happier and fitter, thereby reducing the risk of heart disease.
Why how to keep fit Simple steps
Wednesday, January 22, 2014
Many of us do not get the kind of daily physical activity, it is essential for us, and we are physically "unfit". "Physical activity" means any body movement that uses skeletal muscles - and requires energy to perform. "Fitness" is the ability of a person to engage in physical activity. Fitness can be measured by watching the endurance, strength and flexibility.


Why to stay fit?
If you are a couch potato and want reasons to stay fit. The best reason you got to stay fit is your physical independence so you can do your daily physical functions on your own without requiring any assistance. Studies show that people who exercise over their lifetimes can avoid being disabled at the end of their lives. Those who dont exercise, if they live long enough, are sure to experience disability.
This is one of the best reasons to stay physically active - but not the only reason. Here is a list of 5 reasons why you should move your assess to make physical activity a part of everyday life.
This is one of the best reasons to stay physically active - but not the only reason. Here is a list of 5 reasons why you should move your assess to make physical activity a part of everyday life.
Regular exercise may be one of the keys to happiness, It stimulates brain chemical dopamine which induce relaxation and happiness. Dopamine is neurotransmitter that’s necessary for feelings of pleasure and happiness. And the bad thing about it is that, the amount ot this chemical decrease as you age. Scientists believe that nothing is better than exercising to increase your brain’s dopamine production.
2) Distress with exercise:
So next time you feel stressed, blow of the steam with exercise and feel healthy happy and relaxed. Exercise essentially burns away the chemicals like cortisol and norepinephrine that cause stress. At the same time, vigorous exercise releases endorphins into the system. Endorphins are the body’s natural feel good chemicals, and when they are released through exercise, your mood is boosted naturally.
3) Make your bones stronger
In america 10 million adults are suffering from osteoporosis, and another 34 million have low bone mass making them prone to osteoporosis in future. Osteoporosis makes your bones weak and brittle and exercise increase bone strength. Best exercises for strong bones are weight lifting exercises and walking and running. Just live an active life and include Vitamin D and calcium in your diet.
4) helps you in weight loss
5) Increases longevity
Exercise helps you live longer. Regular exercise reduces the risk of heart disease, osteoporosis, diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol and other chronic health problems. In general, exercise extends longevity by diminishing the risk of a variety of different ailments.Besides the above 5 benefits of exercise it helps to maintain your personality look-wise, increases your endurance and strength. It improves the way your lungs work, helps prevent and control diabetes and is good for your heart. It increases your creativity if you join a team and makes you feel stress free and relaxed.
If you find it hard to follow your exercise regime you can find an exercise buddy who can motivate you and make your workouts more interesting and fun.
I know your health is bothering you and u want to keep fit. So you must learn some Simple Tips & Techniques To Keep You Fit And Healthy.
How to stay fit?
Everybody wants to be fit and athletic, being healthy and fit is not as easy as eating. You may be wondering if there is a magic wand..... Abra ka dabra.....whooosh........ and there you go I am slim, fit and healthy.
Well thats a nice imagination, but is there a way or maybe an easier way to be fit and stay healthy. This definitely takes time & need some dedication, motivation & you have to meticulously follow a regimen.
You can follow certain simple and easy techniques which will help you turn fit and healthy. Have you decided to go for it!...............If yes......
Then read on.
My plan to Stay fit and healthy:
1) Most people plan for tomorrow, next week or next month. But .....I seriously suggest... start right now. Yeah i said now, just stretch your feet, stand up on your toes and lift your hands, stretch, stretch stretch. Yes, there you got it start right now, if you have to do it, just do it now.
| stretching |
2) Follow the Golden Rule - Breakfast like a KING, Lunch like a PRINCE and Dinner like a PAUPER. Keep your dinner very light, avoid cheese, butter, curd or any other fat products.
Breathe in and breathe out deeply whenever your remember. Do simple stretching exercises.
3) Sort out your diet. It is one of the most important components of a fit lifestyle. Many people ignore it, but if you exercise and eat lots of junk food you will not get any fitter.
This is because the junk food turns to fat almost immediately and exercising only gets rid of that fat, so you are effectively going nowhere.
First of all, get rid of any junk food. This includes chocolate, sweets, crisps and most importantly fast food and beverages. You don,t have any idea how bad fast food is for you. So cut out the junk. Eat salads, vegetables, fruit and lean meats, which are high in protein. You should try to eat potatoes, pasta and bananas, since they offer large amounts of energy over a long period of time. Most of this requires willpower so have some guts!
4) Take a nap, sleep well : You hit the gym four times a week. You consciously watch what you eat. But your weight does not seem to be budging. The reason could be those late nights, avoid those discos bars and late night shopping, try to sleep Early 11 pm is ideal time to go to bed.
Below are some other tips to stay fit and healthy: make a good use of them
Eat smart To lose weight : Eating right can help you shred off those extra pounds.
Lose body fat quick and naturally: We can lose weight by consuming the right food diet with recommended caloric value and regular exercise.
Treatment for low back pain: Low back pain is a common issue among computer surfers and bike riders. These are a few simple exercises which will help relieve low back pain.
Balance your spine - Stretch: Learn how to sit, stand, move and exercise in a balanced manner to reduce the stress on neck and lower back to avoid pain to a great extent.
Daily Healthy Habits: Healthy habits that can be followed in daily routine life. These habits will improve blood circulation in the body and also increases the energy levels.
Workplace Workouts: Keep yourself fresh and energetic during work hours. These simple and easy methods can be followed for complete relaxation of the entire body.
Tips and Techniques to Treat your eyes: Most computer users suffer from the problem of tired eyes, dark circles and headaches. Follow these ten tips to avoid them.
Keep a watch on your waistline for a healthy living: Expanding waistlines could become hazardous.
Get rid of unwanted hair: Because the amount of body hair varies considerably from woman to woman and there is a wide range that is considered normal, someone may think she has excessive hair but not be considered hirsute
Treatment for eyes : Home remedies for puffed eyes and dark circles. Treat your eyes for a rejuvenated and reshing appearance
Summer Care - Beat the heat with fruit juices: Juices of grapes, watermelon, banana, jack fruit, lemon and pineapple are essential during summer
How to avoid Heat exhaustion: Avoid Heat Exhaustion by consuming lot of water and eating more fruits and vegetables.
Tips to treat tired eyes: Most computer users suffer from the problem of tired eyes, dark circles and headaches. Follow these ten tips to avoid them.
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